Weddings are one of those events in life where you can get a ton of information and sometimes good or bad advice. This can come from well meaning friends and/or relatives. Do you listen, or do it the way you want to do it? Will you offend someone or will they understand and get over it?
The attached article discusses a dilemma a bride is going through with her mom, who insists that she, the bride have her brother in the wedding who has Autism. http://www.mercurynews.com/2017/08/03/carolyn-hax-my-mom-insists-my-autistic-brother-stand-up-in-my-wedding/
Worth the read!!